Originally Posted by Loyola78

have not been able to 'live the life' as strictly as the doctrine of the Church requires. As much as we are taught that it's normative, it's more of an ideal, IMO, and therefore cannot be adhered to perfectly, by anyone. That's a major reason for the sacrament of penance and reconciliation. I try as best I can, most of the time, to follow the dictates of my religion, but, looking back now at 50, I can see many periods of rather extensive detours. Such is life. We don't fall from grace, however, as long as we keep trying.

Originally Posted by No More "W's"

I've been Catholic all my life. I'm also a 4th Degree Knight in the KCs. I can't recall anyone ever telling me I'd go to hell for missing mass or breaking a commandment. I've been Catholic for over 50 years, but I'm not real great at arguing doctrine because of the way the priests and nuns taught us at the school I went to. It was pretty much focused on being a good person not being a great Catholic.

Originally Posted by Dustin

I am Catholic as many of you guys know, but I do feel the Church is rather strict. I try my best to be a good person but it is annoying to think your going to hell if you miss mass on one sunday or break a simple commandment. Do you guys feel the same with your faith?

Originally Posted by Ice Queen

Well, what do you think of yourself? Do you consider yourself a good Catholic? If so, you shouldn't think about going to Hell just because you make a few mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes. If you know you are a good person, who has respect for others, and accepts his mistakes, you'll go to Heaven. Don't let the Church make you think otherwise.

Originally Posted by Dustin

Not really. I have become rather agnostic lately, but I should get back to the faith.